What is it that makes us have faith in people? Makes us give away our hearts, again and again. They cheat. They blow us off. They even lie. They break our hearts, stamp on them, crush them until what's left is only dust and sand. Still, we keep believing. We keep trying to find something in that person, something good I guess, that we can trust upon. That we can depend upon.
And time after time, day after day they prove us wrong. And guess what, we keep believing. I just don't get it. Why? Are we so desperate to find someone to spend our life with, someone who is going to be there for us even when we are cricket and ugly, old and helpless, someone who even then only sees the beautiful person we are on the inside? Maybe the one they see on the inside is who they see on the outside, no matter how disgusting the person feel about themselves.
You always read about people head over heels in love right? Everything their beloved one does is the most graceful thing they have ever seen in their life. It doesn't matter how many faults and bad habits she has, she is an angel, the one who makes your life brighter and worth living. The one who makes you believe in a future that probably never will be fulfilled.. . .
The lovestories in books, in novels, they don't come true. That kind of stuff is made up, it's a poor authors fantasy. Their dream of reality. The head-over-heels-love, yeah, that never happens and if it does it so rare that people look at it as a myth, a fairytale. You see, part of being an good writer is to put parts of yourself into whatever it is that you are writing. Making it personal, but not crossing the line. You know how it goes, putting parts of yourself into every page, and that is exactly what writers do. Ending up making you believe in their dreams no matter how wicked and crazy they are.
Well..I guess we don't want to give up on things. Finding stuff to worship and ignoring faults are part of the sacrifice we make. Instead of letting go, we hold on as if it's the only right thing to do.
Peace.. . .
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Ida, du har gjort det igjen! Jeg vet ikke hva jeg skal si om innlegget annet enn at det fikk meg til å tenke...
Jeg fant er sitat som fikk meg til å tenke:
"Kjærlighet er livets mål. Den som lever for noe annet vil alltid bli skuffet."
-Phil Bosmans
Klem, Monica<3
Ps: Kan du fortelle i detalj hvordan en vanlig dag for deg er?
kan skrive et innlegg om det monica:) takk for at du kommenterer:D og for at du leser bloggen min:P
utrolig glad i deg!!!!
du skriver så mye til ettertanke,
flott å lese. kan du skrive på norsk også.klem.
liker egentlig best aa skrive paa engelsk. hores saa rart og klisjee aktig ut paa norsk:P men jeg kan prove;)
hvem du naa er:P
hei Ida,så herlig å lese dine kloke betrakninger over livet,følelser og relasjoner. Det er ikke alltid at d blir som man vil etter å ha tenkt rett alikevel men livet og sjansene kan taes og gripes.Impulsivitet og intuitivitet er også viktig. Her er d høst og masse vind! Høstklem fra w
sommerklem tilbake!!<3
Å! Herlighet som jeg misunner varmen!
Kald Monica-klem inntyllet i tepper og et stort ønske om en kopp kakao:D
Glad i deg<3
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